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Attachment Theory and How it Affects Romantic Relationships
Couples, Relationships Laura Parry Couples, Relationships Laura Parry

Attachment Theory and How it Affects Romantic Relationships

This blog post explores attachment theory and how it can affect our romantic relationships. Originating with John Bowlby in the 1950s, attachment theory posits that infants form bonds with their early caregivers that can serve as a template for future relationships. Mary Ainsworth furthered this theory with her "strange situation" study, which identified three different types of attachment in children: anxious-avoidant, secure, and anxious-resistant. The article then applies attachment theory to adult relationships, discussing the three main attachment styles (secure, anxious, and avoidant) and how they can affect our behavior in romantic partnerships. The post emphasizes that attachment style is not fixed and can be changed, and provides tips for creating a more secure attachment in our relationships, such as discussing attachment openly with our partners, investing in the foundation of our relationships, practicing empathy, and actively asking to have our needs met. Overall, the article emphasizes that understanding attachment theory can be rewarding and validating, and can help us overcome old patterns of behavior and create healthier relationships.

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What is Postpartum OCD?
Maternal Mental Health Laura Parry Maternal Mental Health Laura Parry

What is Postpartum OCD?

Postpartum obsessive-compulsive disorder affects about 3-5% of women during pregnancy or up to a year after childbirth. Symptoms involve repetitive and intrusive unwanted thoughts and behaviors to avoid or relieve the thoughts. OCD is an anxiety disorder and can cause excessive worry and scary thoughts, which can be disturbing for someone experiencing it. A personal or family history of anxiety or OCD is a risk factor. However, postpartum OCD is treatable with talk therapy and medication. It is essential to understand the nature of obsessive thoughts and compulsions, practice self-compassion, and seek treatment early.

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What is Postpartum Depression?

What is Postpartum Depression?

Postpartum depression is a condition that affects many women after giving birth or becoming a new parent. In this blog post, we explore what postpartum depression is, its symptoms, causes, and treatment options. We also provide information on how to seek help, emphasizing the importance of early intervention in promoting recovery.

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